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Postby eurovisionireland on Mon Mar 03, 2008, 02:51

I was thinking of this earlier, does anybody have troubles in their life here and they cant tun to anybody and they want a friendly ear to bend then? Do they just want to get something off their chests? Do you want advice from other users? Thats what this thread is for! Maybe we should consider setting up a general log in name and password people could use to post anon if people didnt want to post under their actual name! So look gang, out with it , what is pi$$ing you off at the moment that you want to get off your chest?
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Postby balizeg on Mon Mar 03, 2008, 11:29

lol I just adviced in the other topic that we should open a psychiatry topic and here it is :lol:
Very good idea!
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Postby Another on Mon Mar 03, 2008, 12:53

Don't think that a lot of people gonna tell here their private problems.
Me at least.
Anyway nice tryin', maybe it'll be really useful for someone.
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Postby marais on Mon Mar 03, 2008, 14:13

Okej, give me advice

one classmate always talks me dirty things about sex, mast.. etc and touches me at ehm strange parts of the body and says..omg I can't tell it. Also makes some comments like "oh, it's on left..oh it's on right" :shock: She does that with everybody! :?

well It started to annoy me but when I told her to stop, she didn't. What should I do? :?
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Postby balizeg on Mon Mar 03, 2008, 14:23

Go and get a d*** to her! She obviously needs one!
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Postby eurovisionireland on Mon Mar 03, 2008, 14:35

I suppose threaten to tell her parents or someone in a higher authority. If you have told her before dont be afraid to put her on the spot on front of everybody by saying on front of your class something like "I dont like your attitude towards me, it makes me uncomfortable". She'l be that embarrased she'll stop
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Postby marais on Mon Mar 03, 2008, 14:45

lol balint

eurovisionireland wrote:I suppose threaten to tell her parents or someone in a higher authority. If you have told her before dont be afraid to put her on the spot on front of everybody by saying on front of your class something like "I dont like your attitude towards me, it makes me uncomfortable". She'l be that embarrased she'll stop


well, its not only towards me but towards every male being well except the ugly ones. maybe i should hit her or something :lol: j/k

Well, you should know that Slavic females are really perverse. Especially the current generations. :o
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Postby Alexander's Psychiatry on Mon Mar 03, 2008, 14:54

marais wrote:Okej, give me advice

one classmate always talks me dirty things about sex, mast.. etc and touches me at ehm strange parts of the body and says..omg I can't tell it. Also makes some comments like "oh, it's on left..oh it's on right" :shock: She does that with everybody! :?

well It started to annoy me but when I told her to stop, she didn't. What should I do? :?


It calls molestation :lol:

hit her so she could fall on the floor and everybody could see her disgrace.
Or make the same thing to her. Touch her breasts and say "ooohh! Where are they? I can't feel them!" :twisted:

or kiss her in front of everybody. She doesn't expect THAT for sure.
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Postby balizeg on Mon Mar 03, 2008, 15:11

Alexander's Psychiatry wrote:
marais wrote:Okej, give me advice

one classmate always talks me dirty things about sex, mast.. etc and touches me at ehm strange parts of the body and says..omg I can't tell it. Also makes some comments like "oh, it's on left..oh it's on right" :shock: She does that with everybody! :?

well It started to annoy me but when I told her to stop, she didn't. What should I do? :?


It calls molestation :lol:

hit her so she could fall on the floor and everybody could see her disgrace.
Or make the same thing to her. Touch her breasts and say "ooohh! Where are they? I can't feel them!" :twisted:

or kiss her in front of everybody. She doesn't expect THAT for sure.

Hitting her is..meh :thumbsdown
but the other two ideas are cool :lol:
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Postby balizeg on Mon Mar 03, 2008, 15:14

marais wrote:lol balint

eurovisionireland wrote:I suppose threaten to tell her parents or someone in a higher authority. If you have told her before dont be afraid to put her on the spot on front of everybody by saying on front of your class something like "I dont like your attitude towards me, it makes me uncomfortable". She'l be that embarrased she'll stop


well, its not only towards me but towards every male being well except the ugly ones. maybe i should hit her or something :lol: j/k

Well, you should know that Slavic females are really perverse. Especially the current generations. :o

hehe it could be the Garden of Eden for many people then. :roll: :lol:
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Postby Alexander's Psychiatry on Mon Mar 03, 2008, 15:55

I didn't mean to hit her like Klitchko :lol: ... just push her away ;)

though my fave option is ... T*tty Twister 8)
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Postby SaraLICIOUS on Mon Mar 03, 2008, 16:05

If you really want her to stop, telling her off nicely will not work - I know I wouldn't stop if someone asked me nicely, it takes more! :lol: Because females are complicated creatures y'know.

And I don't really recommend you doing the same thing to her - I mean, if you don't want her to do that to you, why should you do it to her? You obviously don't like the girl and I just think it would be really awkward doing the same thing.

Nah, I think you should tell her off in a really mean way, possibly in front of a lot of other people. It may seem a bit harsh, but if she didn't stop the first time, you have to make her see that it's serious.

And besides, if she has some sort of feelings for you she'll get ashamed if you get mad at her, because all she really wants is attention I guess :P
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Postby GordonRamsayIsmyHero on Mon Mar 03, 2008, 16:12

Shiri wrote:If you really want her to stop, telling her off nicely will not work - I know I wouldn't stop if someone asked me nicely, it takes more! :lol: Because females are complicated creatures y'know.

And I don't really recommend you doing the same thing to her - I mean, if you don't want her to do that to you, why should you do it to her? You obviously don't like the girl and I just think it would be really awkward doing the same thing.

Nah, I think you should tell her off in a really mean way, possibly in front of a lot of other people. It may seem a bit harsh, but if she didn't stop the first time, you have to make her see that it's serious.

And besides, if she has some sort of feelings for you she'll get ashamed if you get mad at her, because all she really wants is attention I guess :P



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Postby Alexander's Psychiatry on Mon Mar 03, 2008, 16:13

^ she's a shameless ATTENTION wh*re that irritates all boys!
that's EXACTLY why you should give her what she wants. Then she will lose the interest.
If not. She's officially retarded :lol:

if you say sh*t to her then you'll become her enemy. If this is your last year you can do so ... but if not you're gonna be enemies for few years :shock:
nahhh. You need something more radical :wink:


btw I had a girl like that who thought she could make me straight by grabbing my a$$ and not only ass :oops: :lol:
I grabbed her too. Not a big deal.
If you feel nothing for her so why should you worry? :wink:
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Postby Milos-BC on Mon Mar 03, 2008, 16:22

Hehe,interesting topic! :P

Touch her breasts and say "ooohh! Where are they? I can't feel them!" Twisted Evil

or kiss her in front of everybody. She doesn't expect THAT for sure.


Yes,that will work! :P
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Postby agentkarl on Mon Mar 03, 2008, 21:22

eurovisionireland you open the most random topics!! :lol: I need advice but \i don't want to post here :oops:
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Postby balizeg on Mon Mar 03, 2008, 21:26

why not? :lol:
we dont know you in person, so you dont have to worry about us :lol:
its like "I can't tell anyone so I'll tell to everybody" (does it make sense? its a Hungarian saying)
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Postby Matt on Mon Mar 03, 2008, 21:29

Allrighty then, I need advice.


Who has been through a Diet and actually had sucess?
I am doing the Weightwatchers and yes I lost some weight (I was really proud of that) but I'm back from my vacation and back to where I started. I'm bitter.
What do you suggest? What diet worked for you? Or do you know someone who went through this and actually manged to keep the pounds of them?
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Postby agentkarl on Mon Mar 03, 2008, 21:31

Okay then i'll post it. I broke up with my ex 6 months ago after 3 years together. I still think about him a lot but I still HATE him. How do I get him out of my head? :cry:

EDIT: @ Matt I find the best diet is to eat little and often and keep active - gym, walking, taking stairs instead of elevator. Little things make a big difference :D
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Postby balizeg on Mon Mar 03, 2008, 21:31

why you need diet? I saw your pic! :o you're totally fine ;)
-> lol, ok i know its not what you wanna hear as an advice :lol:

in Hungary we just had a TV show about it 'The Biggest Loser''s Hungarian version. The winner lost 90kgs :shock: :shock:
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Postby Matt on Mon Mar 03, 2008, 21:37

balizeg wrote:why you need diet? I saw your pic! :o you're totally fine ;)
-> lol, ok i know its not what you wanna hear as an advice :lol:

in Hungary we just had a TV show about it 'The Biggest Loser''s Hungarian version. The winner lost 90kgs :shock: :shock:



Lol, awww thanks Bali.....

I don't have to lose a lot of weight. Just a few pounds. I've been working out, running, swimming....but it's just not enough. I hate being on a diet. I get very cranky if I don't eat.
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Postby Alexander's Psychiatry on Mon Mar 03, 2008, 21:46

^ eat only twice per day. Or eat at least twice less than you've eaten before. See maybe you won't feel it immediatly but you need some time. It's like fighting with cigarettes :lol: It's awful but you have no other options.

I had a disease. I was fat when I was a teen and I have a weak heart so that weight could hurt me even more.
Nothing helped me. But one day I started eating only twice per day. OMG! I felt like sh*t during the 1st week. It was unspeakable but then in a month I lost 20 pounds. :P Since then my weight is stable (which is the most important thing). I have a waist btw :twisted:
Eating less food is the best choice.
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Postby balizeg on Mon Mar 03, 2008, 21:48

aw Karl :( I think there are many persons (including me) who'd need advice in it!
My only advice is to try to spend as much time as possible with your friends so if you're busy you arent thinking about the past!
And when you're alone...listen to CUBJ a lot :D [smilie=hug.gif]
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what the exchange rate between pound and kilo? i never knew that.
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Postby Matt on Mon Mar 03, 2008, 21:50

agentkarl wrote:Okay then i'll post it. I broke up with my ex 6 months ago after 3 years together. I still think about him a lot but I still HATE him. How do I get him out of my head? :cry:

EDIT: @ Matt I find the best diet is to eat little and often and keep active - gym, walking, taking stairs instead of elevator. Little things make a big difference :D


I suggest throw yourself back into the dating pool. It's kind of awkward at first but it's also a sign that you moved on. The longer you wait and think of the past, the harder it will be for you to break out of it.


And the whole eating less food sounds nice in theory but it doesn't really work for me. I freak out, yell at someone and eat the next best thing I can find. lol. It's so hard.
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Postby Milos-BC on Mon Mar 03, 2008, 21:51

I believe how hard it is to lose weight,because i also need to lose some,but i can't :oops: :lol:
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